ARE YOU TIED UP IN MENTAL BONDAGE?!

Super high achiever you are but sometimes a mysterious force ties you down & holds you back. What's wrong? I'm going to share a secret.⠀
I know where you hide your weakness.⠀
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And it's not where you think...⠀
Your biggest weakness is not what we've been taught to believe.⠀
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I work with the shining lights of film, TV and music, with personal brands and entrepreneurial leaders - I've been around the world myself and promoted in the media - And I get to see this face on. I get to experience it and now share it:⠀
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Your biggest weakness lies hidden inside your greatest strengths.⠀
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That's why it's confusing and often invisible to you. But it's still there making you wonder "what the hell is wrong with me?" (Answer: nothing!!)⠀
The most successful leaders are terrified about the humiliation they could face if lost it all.⠀
The most beautiful women have the biggest body insecurities.⠀
The most confident people often feel really uncertain.⠀
Why?⠀
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You can't hold one end of a spectrum 100% of the time.⠀
"Be professional, confident, strong, patient, beautiful, loyal, kind. Always."⠀
We have been taught to fixate on one end of the spectrum and vilify the other.⠀
If you're confident, you can't be shy! If you're smart, don't be stupid!⠀
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Don't those thoughts sound familiar:⠀
If I'm unprofessional, I won't get the results I want.⠀
If I show insecurity, they won't take me seriously.⠀
If I'm weak, I lose trust and I won't deserve success.⠀
If I don't do ABC people will think XYZ of me.⠀
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Do you believe that? I call this kind of talk mental bondage (but not the fun kind) because it can shut you up and keep you from going anywhere.⠀
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So when you feel the 'something is wrong with me' mode, check again.⠀
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You have probably tied up and an act of subconscious non-consensual mental bondage thinking old thoughts that don't let you enjoy the freedom you deserve. If you aren't enjoying the kink - get the hell out, it's not good for you.⠀
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Should you change and work on your weaknesses now that you see them? You can if you want to. But you have my full permission to just be yourself and let yourself be ok already.