Superhero or total loser? The reality of being you.

You know our mind plays tricks on us. One day you feel like the hero, the next, you might be reminded of all the things that didn't work out and feel like a failure.

Have you seen me go for it? I create miracles. I mean it. I got 2 kids who wouldn't be alive without it. I healed my dysfunctional voice to become a singer, I was once a girl from a small city in Germany, and I have travelled the world paid to imitate the Queen of Pop; I get to coach for channel 4 and the BBC. Yo, I had record deals with Sony Music, and I almost became the german voice of Lara Croft. I rest my case.

But this is also true: I served my ass off for a while with 0 results and 0 income. I got so many no's. My music never made it big. My own songs haven't been signed. When I told someone at a wedding once I was a confidence coach, he spat his champagne in my face laughing.

I have felt the shame and embarrassment that keeps us trapped.

I love my work because I get to facilitate rapid change in my clients where they see the truth that serves. I see it as a game:

This is the game where we become bold, not just in the way that we demand bigger fees and make more proposals or get bigger deals. You can also become bold in taking more care of yourself than you ever have. You can relax more as you push forward. You can let go of the shame that's laughing in your face. You can burn off old stuff that no longer serves you.

I have your back.