Tough love.

If your background isn't right, we're judging you. If you don't look like you care about looking good, we're judging you. If you don't know what you're saying, we're judging you. ⠀
Even if you get all of the above right, we're judging you. ⠀

You are right. You will be judged. “Get over it" is what most of us think we have to do. But it's easier said than done.

Here is the deal:
Some things you can improve. Some things you really should improve! Make sure you know what you're saying and how. Sort out your background if you do regular videos. And learn how to dress favourably. It's not vain. It's unkind on my eyes if you don't.

And others things - you can't change. So we can give that part up to the universe- or whoever you choose. The higher powers that be still want you to sort out your bit though.